Today I'm honored and excited to have my friend Kimberly from All Work & No Play here on 'Confessions! Raw, authentic, honest, sweet, and full of saucy humor, she easily became one of my favorite people when we "met" nearly a year ago. Reading about her diagnosis and experience with bipolar disorder led me to seek more aggressive treatment which eventually led to my own diagnosis of BP. Please give her a warm welcome as you read her beautiful words, y'all.
The nurse directed me back to a small room in the ER where Dr. B, my psychiatrist, was waiting.
I flashed a nervous smile, pulled my sleeves over the self-inflicted cuts on my arm and said, “I’m not doing good.”
He motioned to the chair and I sat.
“I think we need to change our plans Kim. I’m going to put you on a mood stabilizer and an anti-psychotic, ones that we use to treat people with bipolar disorder.”
“Kim, you are bipolar.”
The magnitude of the diagnosis forcefully shook the smooth path of life that I was desperately trying to get back on.
I watched as it bent and curved and crumbled.
It grew hills and jagged mountains.
The path, once full of promise, now looked vapid; felt hauntingly uninviting.
It was too loud and too quiet.
It was too bright and too dark.
It felt too euphoric and too depressed and too angry.
It was too peaceful and too whimsical.
All at the same time.
And that light I’d been trying to reach for with all of my being, the end of my battle against postpartum depression and anxiety, was thrown so far at the end of the confusion.
I let my hope drop over the ledge of the path.
Bipolar 2 disorder was devastating diagnosis and at times, I refused to believe it.
I remember walking into Dr. B’s office numerous times and asking him if I was still bipolar.
Each time he nodded his head yes.
Each time I said “damn” under my breath.
For days and weeks I kept the diagnosis a secret.
I felt very ashamed of it. So much so that I dissociated myself from the people I needed most at the time.
Even my friends from a postpartum depression support group.
I felt that I just didn’t belong there.
I felt like a freak.
Through Dr. B, I’ve learned, and now believe, that there is nothing wrong about being bipolar.
There is nothing to be ashamed of.
You have cancer.
You have diabetes.
I have bipolar 2 disorder.
I’m not my illness.
My illness isn’t me.
My name is Kimberly.
I am somebody’s sister, aunt, daughter, and granddaughter.
I am a friend.
I am a Mother.
I am a wife.
I am a nurse.
I am creative.
I am sassy.
I am ridiculously funny.
I am smart.
I am compassionate.
I am in love with Chuck Norris.
I am me.
And that is beautiful.
Just like anyone with any type of medical condition, I still struggle with my illness. I have bumps and bruises and scars from navigating this bipolar road to prove it.
But it gets better.
And I have hopes that I can live a normal life just like the rest of ‘em.
I know I can.
I just have to keep fighting every day to get there.
And I will.
- Bipolar Disorder and Anxiety (everydayhealth.com)
- She Said It: Kathryn Greene McCreight on PPD, Bipolar Disorder & Faith (butterfly-confessions.com)